I over-research things. I spent a lot of time deciding which one to get... pink or purple, taupe or sahara? Should we get a girly color now or let Blair choose that when she gets old enough? Do we want it to be neutral or get pink and just not worry about matching everything? (I like to match.) Which one would look best with blonde hair? And so on. It's a hearing aid. It's not that big of a deal, really, but then again it is. Blair will have these for a few years. I want her to like them when she's old enough to have an opinion. So, it was a big deal to change the color without at least giving me a heads up as to why it was being changed and what my new options were. Anyway, the color turned out to be not what I wanted, but it's not the worst thing ever. It's fine actually. But you know how it is when you have your mind set on something.
So with all the problems we had, I dragged Brad up to the office to get the aids with me and Blair. I usually take Blair to her appointments, so he was pretty clueless about it all, but it was good to have the support.
When we first got there, I saw that the molds were not the color I had requested either (pink), but they'll be fine. We get new ones every three to four months anyway. The molds are completely different too. They are much bigger and harder to put in. These aids have a lot more feedback than her other one, so if the mold is not in there good, they squeal. The other aid didn't do that, so it's good that the mold is a tighter fit.
After putting both hearing aids on for the first time -- these are different from her other aid, and she only had one before -- Blair kept saying, "ah ah ah." I hope that's a good sign. I also hope it's a good sign that she actually likes them. She asks for them by putting her fingers in her ears, and she doesn't take them out unless she's in the car or at the right times, like bath or bed. Other than that, I haven't noticed a big difference, but I hope we will. She seems to have a bit more trouble hearing over noise with them in, but that could be one little con coupled with a lot of pros. We'll see. It could be my imagination -- or Blair's hardheadedness, which she certainly did not get from me!
Blair also qualified for Babies Can't Wait after our second evaluation. It's been about a year since the first one. This time, her receptive language (what she understands) is far more advanced than her expressive language (what she says), so they felt that they may be able to help her. She didn't quite meet the qualifications solely based on expressive language, but the gap was significant enough to merit services. It's bittersweet. I'm glad we're getting more help -- in our home and not over an hour drive -- but it's hard to see it spelled out for you! The speech therapist, as opposed to a parent educator, is going to provide therapy every other week, so we were very happy about that. She is coming this week, so I look forward to getting started. We will continue with Blair's other speech appointments every other week and going to the Atlanta Speech School once a month.
Feeding Bert a fig.
Blair goes back for booth testing in a couple of weeks. When she had her other aid, the testing was the same with as without it, so we hope we see an improvement now. If we don't see speech improvement, we'll have to look at other options. We'll keep you posted! We appreciate your prayers for Blair and for us in making decisions for her!